{"id":290,"date":"2002-08-05T19:11:51","date_gmt":"2002-08-05T19:11:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/1122productions.com\/brandon\/?p=290"},"modified":"2002-08-05T19:11:51","modified_gmt":"2002-08-05T19:11:51","slug":"how-to-win-friends-and-influence-people","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/1122productions.com\/brandon\/?p=290","title":{"rendered":"how to win friends and influence people"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I hope that I don&#8217;t owe Dale Carnegie royalties or anything now.<\/p>\n<p>So, now that I&#8217;ve discussed <a href=\"archives\/000870.html\">my day fitness-wise<\/a>, we move on to the next portion of the day &#8211; meeting people.<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><br \/>\nI went to a church on Sunday morning, and while the people were nice there, I didn&#8217;t really get to know them that well.  I&#8217;m definitely going to go back next week, because it&#8217;s not fair to them or myself to only give it one shot.  But they didn&#8217;t have a Sunday evening service, which surprised me somewhat and lessened the overall appeal of the church to me.  But maybe that&#8217;s just a summer thing.  Anyway&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;d been trying for a while now to find out if there was a Baptist Campus Ministries or something similar to it on the Florida campus.  Of course, you all know that I loved my time at <a href=\"http:\/\/www.uabcm.com\/\">the UA BCM<\/a> and that most of my best college friends are from there.  So I hoped that there was one down here as well.<\/p>\n<p>Well, I couldn&#8217;t find any information except for an e-mail address at first.  I searched UF&#8217;s web site for all incarnations of &#8220;Baptist&#8221;, &#8220;BCM&#8221;, &#8220;BSU&#8221;, etc.  No luck.  Then I got wise and searched the <a href=\"http:\/\/yp.bellsouth.net\/\">online yellow pages<\/a>.  Bingo.  I had a physical address.  Luckily, it was on my side of the campus, so a bike ride to it wouldn&#8217;t prove any more difficult than one to campus itself.  So I determined today to go and make myself known.<\/p>\n<p>Now, those who know me well realize that I&#8217;m an introvert by nature, so it took a little while for me to pump myself up and do it.  But I knew that life here will be a lot more fun if I actually knew some people, so buck up and smile, smile, smile, Brandon!<\/p>\n<p>To make a long story short, it&#8217;s been a really good day for meeting people.  Even though this is apparently finals week for the summer term here at UF, there were some people hanging around, and I got to know several of them.  Of course, most of it was cursory &#8220;who are you, where are you from, what are you studying&#8221; information, but just being around people was something that I&#8217;d been missing, even though I&#8217;ve only been down here a week.  I went to two different places for lunch with two sets of people, and got to know a couple pretty well.  We ended up talking for an hour or so, mostly about football (imagine that, UA BCMers: football is a big topic here too!)  Of course, I got kidded for my impeccable taste in teams; I&#8217;ve tried to console them by saying that at least Florida is my second-favorite team.  I think that they want to convert me.  Pray that I keep the faith. \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n<p>Overall, everyone that I talked to seemed very friendly, and it wasn&#8217;t long before I started making mental connections between them and friends from UA.  Tonight, I&#8217;m going to go to one of their apartments to watch a preseason NFL game.<\/p>\n<p>So overall, things have gone really well today, and hopefully I&#8217;ve laid a foundation that will allow me to be immediately outgoing around the people at the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.ufbcm.org\/\" title=\"Baptist Collegiate Ministries.  A little change, even if the acronym's the same.\">UF BCM<\/a>.  If there&#8217;s one thing that I regretted about my time at the UA BCM, it was that I wasn&#8217;t very outgoing at the start.  Hopefully, I&#8217;m taking this second chance and running with it.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I hope that I don&#8217;t owe Dale Carnegie royalties or anything now. 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